I'm guilty of this! I'm always looking to the right and to the left to see if I am standing out in both good and bad ways. I am always trying to figure out if I am a good wife, a good mother, a good coach....
There really is no real answer to that though. Each person is unique with a completely different life and skill set. We can no sooner compare oureselves to someone else than we can compare apples and oranges.
However, we CAN set goals! We an look at our own life and see things we know need changing and work on it! You are your only competition. I tell my challengers when they start a new work out program that they might not be able to last the full minute drop set the first round. They may only last 15 seconds into a move. The only think I ask of them is that they shoot for 16 seconds tomorrow! That's true in life as well! You only need to be better than you were yesterday in any area of your life to keep growing! So put your blinders on, look at the person in the mirror only, and do your best to be better each day! Be so busy with your own grass that you don't notice the shade of your neighbors!
"And Aubrey was her name. A not so very ordinary girl or name."(Or so says David Gates ;) I'm a wife to Phillip, a mother to Scarlett and Juliet. We live in the beautiful city of Thornton, Co. I'm a recovering red bull addict. I love to read. I hate to cook. I seek to be inspired and also to inspire others. I am a Beachbody Coach on a quest to be truly healthy mind, soul, and body and challenge others to do the same.